Mind and Heart

There are a lot of different between both important things.
Moreover, they seem, sometimes, contradictory.

E.g.: I think I can't do it (as a result of thought), but I want to do that (as a result of belief) even I don't have capability.

But today I realise that there is commonality between them, none in the world can change your mind or heart. Myself is the only one that entitle to change them.

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Maybe I can't change your heart and so you can't change my mind not to do it...

Mind and Heart, should do they working together as a partner or as a control balance for the other?

No Sadness

Sad..

maybe it's one of the most human being is afraid of
this feeling is natural, and necessary to appreciate the happiness

We've never felt how is the delicious food if we never feel the awful one.
Since yesterday, I can't feel the sadness anymore.... ;-)

I don't know why... have I already lost my feeling toward her? or there is another thing happen to me without my notice.. :-)

So at least, from now on.. I'm getting rational...Wise People told, "feeling is the matter of heart but you need to keep your mind ON"

and it works to me........

before I told I have a hope but no chance to realise it....and that tought makes me sad and miserable
and now I tell to my self "You always have a chance..., at least the chance to forget the hope"
and keeping busy is the way to forget it.. ;-)

Busy busy busy.... :D

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I always says "Smile and the world becomes better"
and now.. I feel her smile makes me sad and happy.. :D (but Happy >> Sad, so I get more Happy than Sad)

Hope and died....

The true died is once the human is not breath anymore... at least it is a criterion over century ago. Then the human thinks that heart beat is more significant that just only breathing.
Later, we realise that by electric shocking we can still make the heart beating when the peole has already died. And now, the the doctor (especially Coroner) examine the brain function to define the died.

The other notion of died in social term, Erich Fromm argue that the real died happens when we stop to hope something. The only things in the worlds that have no boundary and limitation "thought" and "hope". We can do as far as we want and It can make our life colourful.
Never-never stop for hoping and thinking

Thinking-Hoping or DIED

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I'm still the same person with the one in last week. I'm still having a hope of something and doing in any means to achieve it. It makes my life more fruitful.
The only different with last week is Last week I have a chance to realise the hope and now I don't have it anymore.... everything is obvious now.

Since I'm hoping... at least I haven't died yet....
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Always learn a good side of everything happens to us and you'll grow your wisdom

Don't kill everything

Killing is the most sin crime.
I tought killing the feeling doesn't put in those criteria.
One of my friend said .. YES.. it is the same, and even worse
and now, I agree ;-)

Love is not the matter of getting the girl or not, but the matter of giving.
I've done the best I can do. Once I fail.. it is just the result, you can do or try the best you can afford, but you can't direct the result.

May GOD, make my dream becomes true.


Erich Fromm, "Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love"

Regret....Again

We can do everything if they are on our priority list.. otherwise forget it.
Because it is almost the same hoping star falling from the sky.

If we hope something more than the "normal" limit, so we should prepare be regreat or maybe even..more...

be rational...and act rationally